I just read a site that teaches how to get along in a relationship. Which goes hand in hand with my last blog, "Homecoming."This blog teaches to use your body in the way you communicate, not just your mouth. Did you know that more than half of communication is done with your eyes? Body language can also say a lot about you. The way you hold yourself up, or don't. In a relationship you have also got to listen to the other person! You cant always be right. Its kind of like a dance floor. You try and stay in a certain area, careful not to step on anyones toes. But sometimes you just cant avoid conflict, and some toes may get stepped on. Its all part of the journey. You also have to have your trigger spots. Trigger spots are those "looks" or body motions that just set you off. So if you have a trigger spot, tell the person your having the problems with about it! You are in a relationship so they will understand. Plus it makes your relationship stronger, and you will adjust to the persons wants and needs. So i strongly suggest reading this blog. It has tons of tips on how to keep your cool and keep your relationship healthy.

As part of team 3 Im excited to be blogging.

My Homecoming.

Alright everyone knows about homecoming right? Well as much as I like homecoming and dancing and all its also kind of a conflict at our school. Sure its fun if that one guy asks you but what if he doesn't? What if no one does? Wont that leave you feeling hurt and unimportant. Or maybe to many people ask you? You can only pick one. So wont that hurt them? I have tried a million different ways to let the person down easy. But someone no matter what always ends up getting hurt. And heres a tip for the guys out there. Never and i mean never ask a girl to the dance through text message. Its the worst way you can do it. Think of something! Fun and exciting! That way its not just a normal invitation. So this one guy asked me, and i really wanted to go with him. But he asked me through text! like really? come on. So anyways this other guy asked me by coming to my house and writing on my driveway with chalk. Now thats creative! Im just saying homecoming can create a lot of drama and conflict.

Im going to figure this out though. Somehow Im going to make everyone happy.

Rachael